Ever choose not to say something? It is just as important as what you choose to say. Censorship is an art. The conversation is the relationship(Susan Scott). What you choose to say is what defines your relationship, and what you do not say defines the boundaries of the relationship.
Conversations can follow wild trajectories, but fate is as malleable as clay(Joanna Newsome). If you want something to go somewhere, you have to have that intention and get the words out there.